{"id":7302,"date":"2020-04-14T15:33:48","date_gmt":"2020-04-14T15:33:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dream-singles.com\/blog\/?p=7302"},"modified":"2026-04-14T16:53:08","modified_gmt":"2026-04-14T16:53:08","slug":"how-to-get-the-best-out-of-chat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dream-singles.com\/blog\/how-to-get-the-best-out-of-chat\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Get the Best Out of Chat"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">No matter what online dating service you use,&nbsp;<em>chat<\/em>&nbsp;is a feature that is common to all. You can learn all about someone from their profile, but chat gives a more intimate setting to get to know each<\/span> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">other. On&nbsp;<span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dream-singles.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?q=https:\/\/www.dream-singles.com\/&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1586978040333000&amp;usg=AFQjCNHpVL6Kp5hKGVhjpiVAKEiZHq_yhg\">Dream Singles<\/a><\/span>, we encourage you to use chat as a way to get closer<\/span> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">to the women you are interested in. So what are the benefits of chat?<\/span> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">What are some conversation tips? Don\u2019t worry, Dream Singles has you covered.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">Here is how to get the best out of chat on Dream Singles.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">When you log onto your profile on Dream Singles, you might notice the many chat requests in your inbox.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">Unlike most dating sites, women are often the ones to make the first move on Dream Singles.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">Don\u2019t be weary, the 7 to 1 ratio on the site encourages women to take their shot first.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">Our female members are eager to connect with other members of the site, so use this to your advantage!&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dream-singles.com\/blog\/how-to-get-the-best-out-of-chat\/#The_Mechanics_of_Chat\" >The Mechanics of Chat<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dream-singles.com\/blog\/how-to-get-the-best-out-of-chat\/#The_Art_of_Conversation\" >The Art of Conversation<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dream-singles.com\/blog\/how-to-get-the-best-out-of-chat\/#Actively_Listen\" >Actively Listen&nbsp;<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dream-singles.com\/blog\/how-to-get-the-best-out-of-chat\/#Ask_About_Hobbies_Interests\" >Ask About Hobbies &amp; Interests<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dream-singles.com\/blog\/how-to-get-the-best-out-of-chat\/#Send_a_Photo\" >Send a Photo<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Mechanics_of_Chat\"><\/span><span style=\"color: #272c69;\"><b>The Mechanics of Chat<\/b><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">It\u2019s very easy to get to the chat feature in<span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dream-singles.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?q=https:\/\/www.dream-singles.com\/&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1586978040333000&amp;usg=AFQjCNHpVL6Kp5hKGVhjpiVAKEiZHq_yhg\">Dream Singles<\/a>.<\/span><\/span> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">Simply find any woman you are interested in and on their profile there will be a chat option.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">You can also find the chat feature from your homepage, in the sidebar, from the online now section, and more!&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Simply click on the&nbsp;<i>Chat Now<\/i>&nbsp;button, wherever you find it, and a chat window will open.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">The chat section on the bottom gives you the ability to break the ice however you want.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">Dream Singles even gives you a list of&nbsp;<i>Ice Breakers<\/i>&nbsp;that you can use.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">From the chat window, you can send emojis or&nbsp;<i>Smiles,&nbsp;<\/i>virtual gifts, photos, and more.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Art_of_Conversation\"><\/span><span style=\"color: #272c69;\"><b>The Art of Conversation<\/b><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Dream Singles makes it so easy to get to chat but how do you have worthwhile conversations? Here are some tips on how to have genuine conversations that keep both parties engaged.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Actively_Listen\"><\/span><b>Actively Listen&nbsp;<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Do you think this is common sense?<\/span> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">Think again! It\u2019s really easy to start typing away and not actually listen or process what someone else is saying.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">If you are trying to connect with a love interest, you have to really listen.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">Don\u2019t just talk about yourself, make her feel special. Instead of just responding with a simple \u2018yes\u2019 or \u2018no\u2019, add emojis or&nbsp;<i>Smiles&nbsp;<\/i>to your conversation.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">Make it fun and interesting.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Ask_About_Hobbies_Interests\"><\/span><b>Ask About Hobbies &amp; Interests<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">When you\u2019re chatting with someone, make it your goal to find some common interests between you.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">Asking about hobbies and interests is a good way to find out if you are really interested in this person.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">You can tell a lot about a person by what they are interested in.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">When you <span style=\"color: #272c69;\">find<\/span> something that interests you both, keep this as something to bring up in conversation later!&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Send_a_Photo\"><\/span><b>Send a Photo<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">One of the best ways to connect with someone is to send a photo of yourself.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">When you\u2019re connecting with someone online, it\u2019s easy for a conversation to get less personable.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">Sending an image helps you become more familiar with who you actually are.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">For example, send a picture of your dog or cat. This is a great way for someone to get to know who you are and what you care about.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No matter what online dating service you use,&nbsp;chat&nbsp;is a feature that is common to all. 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